What are the eight lies all narcissists tell?
Narcissists and the truth go together kind of like oil and water, and nothing is really off-limits. If you’ve been with a narcissist, you know this. But there are some common lies that all narcissists tell, and we are going to cover those in today’s article.
Number one is, ‘You can be vulnerable with me.’
Now, they may outright say this. They may actually tell you that you can be vulnerable, that it’s safe to share your stories, your experiences, your feelings, your hardships. But unfortunately, if you’re dealing with a narcissist, it’s not safe.
Now, this isn’t something that you’re going to be able to use to determine whether you’re dealing with a narcissist because, in reality, you should be able to be vulnerable with people who are close to you.
So if somebody is telling you that you should be vulnerable with them, it doesn’t necessarily mean that they are narcissists. But this is a lie that all narcissists tell in one way or another. They may do this by making you feel comfortable. They might not actually say the words, or they might do this by asking you questions and telling stories from their own life to help you let your guard down.
The second lies that all narcissists tell is ‘You can rely on me,’ and/or ‘I’ve got your back.’
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