A narcissist will only ever cover their own back. Yes, maybe they’ll do nice things for you or for other people if it’s convenient for them or if they can get something out of it. But if it comes down to it, if they just flat-out don’t want to do something for you, they’re not going to do it. They might create this feeling kind of like ‘We’re in this together, you know. I’ve got your back, you’ve got mine.’ Unfortunately, most of us end up finding out at the worst possible time that the other person isn’t really there for you.
In fact, they can very quickly change their tune. So they can go from being your best friend and somebody who’s in your corner, somebody who’s there for you, to being somebody who is absolutely against you, somebody who’s smearing your name or doing things actively to hurt you.
Unfortunately, a lot of us end up feeling foolish for trusting this person in the first place. But really, if you’re in this place, it’s not your fault. It’s by design. These are part of the core lies that narcissists tell to get you to let your guard down and to get you to trust them.
The third lies that all narcissists tell is, ‘It’s not my fault.
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