Unfortunately, it kind of works unless you’ve encountered somebody like this before, and then you know that somebody who’s really honest doesn’t need to tell you how honest they are. But as people, we like to give other people the benefit of the doubt, and if somebody tells you they’re really honest, you want to believe them. It’s not until you get much deeper into the relationship that you realize how untrue this one really is. Even if the narcissist tries to avoid outright lies, they’re always going to have secrets. Narcissists always need supply. When you have a lot to hide, it’s difficult not to lie; you need to lie to keep those secrets, to keep those skeletons in the closet. Even when they aren’t outright lying to you, they might be omitting large chunks of information that would be really helpful for you to know.
The 6 lie is, ‘I’m going to change.
I am going to be nicer. The narcissist may promise to do what they want, but this is a lie. They only hear from you when they need something from you. If they need you as a supply, they may promise the world, counseling, or improved behavior.They may promise to be nicer and improve their behavior, but this is infuriatingly false if you’ve been there before.
The seventh lie you may hear from a narcissist is harsh; it’s a difficult one to hear and it’s a difficult one to talk about now too. But the lie is ‘I love you.’
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