This one is a little tricky, but if you know the narcissist you are dealing with is extremely image-focused, think of ways to use that against them. For example, if this narcissist wants to be perceived as an amazing parent by people like the court system or the police, you want to trigger that. Push your decisions and make them about the welfare of your children so the narcissist feels compelled to agree even when they don’t want to. Some narcissists are extremely paranoid. How can you trigger that paranoia of bad exposure and make them feel compelled to act, or everyone will know who they are?
Can you trigger their impulsivity? If they are extremely impulsive, how can you offer them something that lures the narcissist into the trap of instant gratification? What is instant gratification for the narcissist? Feeling powerful, in control, or having their ego stroked? Think about all these things and come up with unique strategies to use their traits against them so they do what you want them to do.
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