The condescending eye contact, often accompanied by a smirk, is a deliberate attack. Narcissists excel at using shame to manipulate. This look aims to belittle you, making you feel insignificant and questioning your self-worth. It’s a psychological battering ram, designed to leave you feeling emotionally bruised. Imagine a parent looking down at a disobedient child, but without the guidance or love. It’s a calculated move to erode your confidence and make you easier to control.
- The Scornful Up-Down Sweep: Diminishing Your Existence
A slow, disdainful scan from head to toe, followed by a dismissive eye roll, is a potent weapon in the narcissist’s arsenal. This nonverbal insult aims to convey their perceived superiority. They want you to feel small and invisible, reinforcing their inflated sense of self. It’s like they’re taking your measure, but finding you utterly lacking. This treatment can be particularly damaging in a romantic relationship, where a partner should feel cherished and respected.
- The Classic Eye Roll: Dismissive Contempt
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