A relationship can end for many reasons, but when it’s a normal relationship, both parties are usually willing to own up and be accountable for the role they played in the relationship coming to an end. This is where relationships with narcissists are different because when a relationship ends with a narcissist, they are never at fault. So what will all narcissists do when a relationship ends? They will blame the other person for the relationship falling apart. Even if they try to appear reasonable and accept a small percentage, the onus will be on the other person. This is always the case whether the narcissist discarded you or you discarded them. The other person is to blame, but never the narcissist. The other person made things unbearable, and that is why the narcissist had to discard them. Or the other person was crazy and selfish, and that is why they discarded the narcissist. The narrative is always the same; for some strange reason, the narcissist is the one who keeps ending up with partners or people who are not right or mentally unstable. The narcissist is the good guy or the helpless victim who can’t find someone to love them the way they deserve. If you meet someone like this who blames all their exes for the relationship ending, that is a big red flag.
In the mind of a narcissist, a relationship ending means someone is at fault, and they are determined that it will not be them, even if it is. This is why narcissists slander their partners so that if the relationship ever ends, they have covered their backsides. Their story is already in place so that no one would ever look at them as the bad guy. What is annoying is when the narcissist actually ends up staying with their partner for decades but has been slandering them ruthlessly for years. The people who believe the narcissist’s lies about this other person end up viewing the narcissist as a saint for being such a patient person for enduring their so-called toxic partner, child, friend, or whoever it is for so long. What is certain is that whether the narcissist is a man or a woman, they are always the victim in their relationships.
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