First and foremost, narcissists don’t want you to know exactly how much they depend on you for survival. It’s why they often act aloof, disinterested, or even angry most of the time. It’s all a cover-up to hide their blatant insecurities. But don’t start believing you can be a hero and show them the reasons why they don’t need to be insecure. No one has ever successfully converted a narcissist after trying to be their hero—just ask anyone who’s ever tried.
Narcissists engage in all sorts of manipulative tactics to keep you engaged and desperate. They lean on betrayal trauma to keep you chained. Just like they know how to make you feel guilty and ashamed, they also know how to make you feel flattered and loved. During these times, it’s important to remember that because someone is acting nice, it doesn’t mean it’s genuine, especially if there’s a history of emotional abuse and manipulation.
Narcissists don’t want you to know your self-worth. They don’t want you to realize that you can do better than them. That’s why they often put you down, make fun of your victories, or even sabotage your success. They can’t tolerate you considering a life without them. Narcissists don’t see people as real people with emotions and thoughts. They see them as objects designed to satisfy their needs. They want you to see yourself that way too.
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