If a person tries to pull you into an argument or some kind of drama, say something nice to them. The old “kill ’em with kindness” trick really does stop them in their tracks. Another technique is to keep your calm and remain silent. There’s nothing more irritating than being ignored. However, if you’re trying to avoid an argument with your friend or partner, try to put yourself in their shoes. This can help you understand if there’s some point in their objections that you are missing.
13. Motivate the Lazy Person
If you have that one lazy person on your team that slows the whole work process down, don’t give them tasks by saying “Do this.” It’s better to say “Start with this.” Psychologically, it’ll seem like there’s less work because according to this phrase, they should start with something small. After they’ve done the first task, use the words “Very good, now continue with this” until they end up finishing what you wanted them to do in the first place.
14. Speak in Public
If you have to speak in public, don’t forget to take a bottle of water with you. First of all, you’ll need it since your nerves will make your mouth feel like the Sahara Desert. Plus, you can take a pause to sip some water in order to remember a part of your speech that slipped your mind. The audience will never know. And if you feel too anxious to speak in front of a large crowd, admit this fact to the audience right away. It lightens the mood, calms your nerves, and makes your listeners feel more sympathetic since most of them can probably relate.
15. Drive Staring People Crazy
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