Today, I want to talk about why a narcissist can never forget you. Once you have interacted with a narcissist on a personal level, it is nearly impossible for them to forget you, or for you to forget them. They tend to leave an indelible impression on the lives of those who dared to love them and those who were raised by them.
Although many of us would prefer to forget them completely if we could, the narcissist actually prefers not to forget—especially if you were a major source of narcissistic supply or if you caused a narcissistic injury. Narcissistic supply refers to the attention, admiration, validation, and power that the narcissist derives from those around them. On the other hand, a narcissistic injury occurs when someone offends the narcissist to the extent that it overwhelms their defense mechanisms and devastates their pride. Simply put, bruising the narcissist’s ego will cause a narcissistic injury. For more information on how this happens, please see this video.
But at the end of the day, you do not need to do much to offend a narcissist, as they are very petty and insecure. So, whether you were really good or really bad to the narcissist, it doesn’t matter—they will not want to forget you, and today I will explain why. What is it that makes you so unforgettable to a narcissist? This might also explain why they haven’t given up on you yet.
Life-long Grudges
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