They will tell anyone and everyone who will listen how terrible you are, and they will lie, they will gossip, project, and make up all kinds of stories that aren’t true, just to get people to believe them play the victim, and be on their side.
2. The narcissist will contact you about random things
Narcissists will do whatever it takes just to check if you are still hooked on them. They will ask you unimportant things just to be a bit more present.
Narcissists don’t like to lose, and they won’t just make peace with the fact that you discarded or rejected them. They won’t give up their narcissistic supply that easily. You have to stay strong in these situations because they will come back and ask questions or indicate that they are dating someone else when they’re actually not.
The narcissist will do this to see if you’ll be triggered and if they can get a reaction out of you. And if they can get a reaction out of you, then the narcissist knows that you are still hooked on them and that they have an easy way back into your life.
Do not react to these provocations. Don’t engage and maintain no contact because if you do, you’ll find yourself seeking answers, trying to get them to take responsibility, and the result of all of this will be you getting hurt once again.
3. False apologies
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