The narcissist will send you gifts, texts, emails, cards, or even call you pretending to take responsibility and promise to change, saying how sorry they are. Don’t fall for it. A narcissist would do pretty much anything to get you back into the cycle of abuse.
The narcissist is only pretending to accept and reconcile, and they will lead a long and deep conversation with you and trying to find out what went wrong in their life to cause them to behave the way they do. Don’t fall for these classic narcissistic tactics and lies. The narcissist is only saying this to get you to think that they have changed so that you will take them back.
It can be so hard to resist this because you think that finally, the narcissist has changed. Finally, the narcissist has realized all the things you’ve been saying for so long. And before you know it, you’re right back to square one, right back in the cycle of abuse.
4. The narcissist will attempt to Hoover you
Hoovering is a classic narcissistic maneuver. It’s a classic narcissistic tactic because it’s all about when and getting their supply back. It has nothing to do with love or missing you.
When you go no contact with the narcissist, they’re going to Hoover you even more, even if the narcissist discarded you, they will still Hoover you, but especially, if you discarded them. Because the narcissist is desperate to regain power and control and get you back into that toxic relationship with them. It’s all a game to the narcissist.
5. Stalking
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