When you go no contact with a narcissist, this is very common. A narcissist will stalk you when you go no contact, especially the narcissist on the higher end of the spectrum, “the more malignant types of narcissists”.
Malignant narcissists are very persistent with their victims, and they will not leave you alone because they are obsessed with the steady stream of supply that you used to give them. You left the narcissist completely blindsided by going no contact.
The narcissist will perceive you going no contact as abandonment, rather than a way to secure your peace and sanity and heal from their abuse. It’s a game for narcissists. It’s all about winning, power, and control.
6. Guilt-trip you
Be prepared for the narcissus to guilt-trip you by exploiting your sympathy and compassion by playing the victim.
The narcissist will come up with all kinds of bad things that happen to them. For example, the narcissist will lie and say that they lost their job or that they are sick in the hospital dying of cancer… etc. If the narcissist can make you feel sorry for them, then they know that they still have a chance.
The narcissist knows that you are a compassionate person by nature as an impact. That is one of the reasons why impacts attract narcissists due to their empathy and sympathy, and their willingness to help others. Narcissists will exploit that in any way they can.
Continue reading on the next page
Sharing is caring!
