Sometimes, a narcissist will send texts that make no sense—full of spelling mistakes or completely incoherent. When you ask for clarification, they treat you like an idiot. This tactic is meant to confuse you, provoke a reaction, or assert dominance. Another common tactic is sending a “wrong person” text to upset you.
7: Mixed Messages
You may receive a text that says something like, “Our relationship is over. You’re the most amazing person I’ve ever met, but we want different things. I wish you peace and happiness.” These mixed messages are designed to confuse you and keep you emotionally hooked.
Keep in mind that not all narcissists use these tactics all the time, but when they do, it’s about control, fear of rejection, and abandonment. If you find yourself waiting for their breadcrumbs of attention, you may be allowing yourself to be used for their convenience. In this case, consider talking to a mental health professional to help you regain your dignity and self-respect.
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