If you’re still doubting and asking, “Am I the narcissist? Am I the crazy one? Did I make all of this up? Am I the one who caused all the problems?”This article may be for you. Today, I am going to clear your doubts once and for all.
In today’s article, we will talk about Five Signs You Do Not Have Evil Energy Like a Narcissist. Sign number five is the most interesting one, so stay until the very end.
1. Children Can Naturally Relax Around You
You know narcissists are demonic by nature, and they haunt little children who can feel their energy. When you hold a crying child, they ultimately feel soothed and fall asleep. Why? Because you co-regulate with them, something a narcissist can never do—not even in their dreams. Narcissists are massively dysregulated, and when they see a child, they have to put up a show. They wear a mask, becoming the “Disneyland dad” or “Disneyland mom,” holding the child’s attention temporarily. However, they can’t truly hold space for the child’s emotions or let them develop their own ego. They must control the child through infantilization and parentification, keeping them small.
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Yes, at first, it may seem like a candy show—being the “Disneyland parent.” But eventually, the child sees through the mask and becomes disgusted by their reality. On the other hand, with you, children feel they can be themselves. They can be angry, sad, or happy, and they know they will be accepted. That’s what makes you different from the narcissist.
2. Narcissistic and Toxic People Are Attracted to You
I’m not saying you attract them; they are attracted to you because you offer what they need for survival. I’m talking about your goodness, empathy, compassion, kindness—everything you are as a human being, which they take for granted. Or should I say, they want you to take it for granted so they can openly take advantage of you.
These toxic individuals exist in every part of your life. They are in your family, your workplace, and your social circles. This may make you wonder, “What’s wrong with me? Why am I attracting so many narcissists?” But the truth is, nothing is wrong with you. They are coming after you because they want what’s inside you. That’s why you need to have energetic boundaries.
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3. You Feel Fatigued Most of the Time
This fatigue isn’t just chronic fatigue—it doesn’t improve with sleep or rest. You feel tired all the time because you are highly sensitive. You read into too much, tuning into people’s energy. You observe micro-expressions on faces and read body language, not like a predator, but because it’s your superpower. You can meet a person and, within a minute or two, tell whether they are happy, depressed, or in need of help. This energetic empathy comes at a cost, and it’s not easy to carry this burden.
On the other hand, the narcissist rarely feels fatigued. Why? Because they are filling their containers with your energy. They may sleep very little or not at all and still not have any problems.
4. Narcissistic People and Other Personality Types Hate You
Many toxic individuals hate you because they know you’re capable of leaving a massive impact on humanity and making the world a better place. They don’t want you to succeed in that. You need to understand that there is a dark side to humanity, which is why concepts like the “Dark Tetrad” exist. Some people simply don’t want you to do what you’re meant to do.
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You have a purpose in life, a calling, a desire to do more than most people. That’s what you need to pursue. The narcissists in your life are, in essence, Devil’s agents. They don’t want you to move forward, so they will try to create obstacles and cause you problems. You will be hated by them, and you will have a lot of haters.
Now, there’s nuance here. I want you to understand this carefully because one could fall into the trap of thinking, “I’m special,” which is essentially narcissistic thinking. That’s not what I’m saying. I’m not saying you’re special in a narcissistic or egotistic way. What I’m saying is that you are like everyone else, but you’ve recognized your purpose. And your purpose can change thousands of lives. That’s what the narcissist doesn’t want to happen, so they are trying to stop you.
5. You Attract a Lot of Animals
You attract a lot of animals—birds, cats, dogs, rabbits—you name it, they come to you. And you don’t understand why. “Am I weird? Am I crazy?” No, you’re not. These sentient beings can read your spirit and smell your soul. They know there isn’t any malice in you. Yes, we all have both dark and light within us, but what we choose is what defines us. In the case of a narcissist, their evil nature defines them. In your case, you did not let the darkness take over, and these animals sense that.
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That’s why they gravitate toward you. They may be total strangers, yet squirrels will come up to you and eat from your hand. In the park, squirrels may climb all over your body even though you’re a stranger. That’s who you are, and you need to embrace it.
At this point, you might ask, “What about narcissists who are really good pet parents?” Are they really? Because, in front of you, they can act all nice. Yes, they may shower their pets with love, but who knows what happens behind closed doors? I can tell you what happens—there’s a lot of abandonment and neglect. These poor animals experience cognitive dissonance because their narcissistic owner loves them sporadically. Most of the time, they are horrible and neglectful, giving attention only when they want something in return.
In public, the narcissist has to put on a show, and that’s when the pet receives affection and gets excited. That’s what you see, which may lead you to believe they are good pet owners, but they’re not.
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