I Can Confidently Say That as a Survivor of complex trauma and narcissistic abuse, you have one hidden weakness that makes you susceptible to further narcissistic abuse. This makes you an easy, yet perfect, target for controlling and manipulative people. This weakness has nothing to do with your empathy. No, it’s not your compassion, kindness, or understanding nature. It is something deeply embedded in your personality and resides in the deepest corners of your subconscious mind. But when it gets activated, everything shuts down. Let’s find out what I’m talking about in this article.
I’m going to talk about your biggest weakness that you need to address if you want to become narcissist-proof. The weakness I am referring to is your inability to cope or stick to your boundaries when under immense pressure. It’s how you crack and finally give in when the narcissist forces something on you. When they want something from you, yes, you say “no” in the beginning, but to avoid conflict and get rid of them, you finally just give in—give them access, give them money, or give them what they’re after, whether it’s attention or any form of supply they crave. This is what truly makes you vulnerable.
Why Does This Happen?
When you’re dealing with a narcissist, you need to know that you’re in a battle for your life. You have to stay firm in your resolve when dealing with such a monster. You cannot afford to leave them any room at all because they’re manipulative and exploitative and will turn an inch into a mile. They don’t care; they’ll take all the space. You already know this, so you have to have very strong, unshakable, and unbreakable boundaries—but not with the narcissist, with yourself.
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