Narcissistic abuse often pushes you into behaviors that don’t align with who you truly are. You may feel angry, disjointed, and behave in ways that you wouldn’t normally. If you usually get along well with others but consistently clash with this person, it’s a sign your boundaries are being violated. The circular, nonsensical arguments you have with the narcissist may leave you feeling drained and confused.
4. You’re Accused of Traits They Possess
Narcissists often accuse you of the very things they’re guilty of—lying, being selfish, lacking integrity, or using people. This tactic keeps you on the defensive, constantly trying to prove that you’re not like them. This is another way narcissists manipulate and keep you hooked in the relationship.
5. You’re Cleaning Up Their Messes
Narcissists thrive on drama, and being connected to them means you’re constantly cleaning up after their chaos. They lack accountability and sensibility, often making messes that you’re left to sort out. You may find yourself paying their fines, covering for their mistakes, and lying on their behalf. Meanwhile, your own well-being suffers as you spend your time and energy managing their problems.
6. Your Boundaries are Disintegrating
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