Narcissists love to make you feel isolated by telling you that “no one else” agrees with you or “no one else” sees things your way. This is meant to make you feel ganged up on and doubt your position.
Why they do it:
They want you to feel like you’re the odd one out, which weakens your confidence and makes you more susceptible to their control.
How to handle it:
Stay grounded in your own beliefs. Just because they claim others don’t agree with you doesn’t make it true. If necessary, seek outside perspectives from people you trust.
5. “Everyone Else Thinks I’m Right”
The flip side of the previous tactic is when a narcissist says, “Everyone else thinks I’m fantastic” or “Everyone else thinks I’m right.” This tactic is designed to make them look perfect in comparison to you, painting you as the unreasonable one.
Why they do it:
By making themselves seem admired by others, they hope to make you feel like you’re the one with the problem, reinforcing their control over the situation.
How to handle it:
Don’t compare yourself to the imaginary “everyone else.” Focus on what’s true and right for you. Again, seeking validation from trusted third parties can help confirm what’s real and what isn’t.
6. “I Always Do Everything I’m Supposed To Do”
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