As shocking as this may sound, science has revealed that there is a demonic aspect to narcissism. It has acknowledged that you can actually see demons in people. But wait—before you jump for joy thinking that narcissism will finally be fully exposed, that’s not going to happen. The disorder doesn’t target the narcissist; it targets you. This intriguing disorder is often referred to as “demon face syndrome” in simple terms, while in clinical terms, it’s called “proor phobia.”
When I mentioned demon face syndrome, did you momentarily assume it would explain why a narcissist’s face appears demonic towards the end of a relationship or during a rage episode? I thought so too when I first stumbled upon this syndrome. However, after conducting some research and understanding what it entails, I was taken aback. Why? Because it’s not about the narcissist; it’s about you. Contrary to what you may believe, it labels you as the crazy one. If you visit a psychiatrist or psychologist who hasn’t experienced narcissistic abuse and tell them, “Doctor, I saw a demonic face in my partner towards the end of the relationship. Am I crazy?” the response is likely to be dismissive. Instead of affirming your experience, they might diagnose you with demon face syndrome, suggesting you have a mental illness, are hallucinating, or experiencing a psychotic episode. This is, quite frankly, the ultimate form of victim-blaming.
We both know there is a demonic aspect of narcissism; it’s not just me or you—countless individuals have experienced similar phenomena and reported the same unsettling observations. How can so many people, particularly survivors of narcissistic abuse, be mistaken?
To be honest, when I encountered this disorder, I felt a wave of concern. Why? Because I understood what would likely happen to individuals in clinical settings. Many survivors of narcissistic abuse are misdiagnosed with borderline personality disorder (BPD). Why is that? Because they are often extremely sensitive to abandonment, emotionally dysregulated, and confused, exhibiting patterns that may not make sense to clinicians. When faced with such behaviors, they attach a label, and BPD often becomes the go-to diagnosis.
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However, one potential positive outcome from the concept of demon face syndrome is the ultimate validation it provides. I know this sounds twisted, but at least it acknowledges that yes, people can perceive those black, shark-like eyes and yes, they can see what appears to be reptilian features in others. While this doesn’t fully recognize it as a legitimate phenomenon, it does imply that individuals can sometimes see beyond the physical form of the person they are dealing with.
This brings a sense of relief, knowing that what you saw was real. It should reassure you that you made the right decision in leaving someone devoid of empathy or a soul. As for the critics—the ones who argue that claiming a demonic aspect to narcissism absolves the narcissist of responsibility—this is not the case. What we’re saying is that these darker influences shape their behavior. It is the narcissist who consistently chooses evil, time and again, as their actions make those demonic forces resonate within their hearts.
According to neuroscience, as long as your prefrontal cortex is functioning, you retain the ability to make choices. This is where decision-making, executive functioning, and the ability to think critically reside. As long as this part of the brain is intact, you can always change. This applies to narcissists as well; they are not devoid of this capability. Instead, they choose to be reactive, rageful, and manipulative because it serves their interests. They continually opt for the easy path, and that explains their seemingly demonic nature. When you make choices that align with dark forces repeatedly, you risk becoming one yourself.
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At times, this becomes so extreme that they can no longer contain it. It spills out, leading to psychotic episodes where their true essence is revealed, often manifesting in a contorted face. What do you think about this syndrome? How do you believe it will impact individuals who have experienced it? I encourage you to share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below.
Reflecting on my own life, I’m reminded of my grandfather, who would talk to himself so loudly that it seemed as if he were conversing with another person. While many would classify that as a mental condition, I know he was involved in dark arts. How do I know? I’ve created numerous episodes on this topic, but I’ll share just one story today. He once taught me how to separate a couple using a spell, providing specific instructions on what to say, how to say it, and what materials to use. When I revealed this to others, thinking it was a simple truth, he completely discarded me and refused to even look at me anymore.
There was a history of these practices; relatives spoke of them, and he even confessed to many things. Here’s an intriguing twist: his home was rumored to be haunted by demonic spirits. My rational mind questions these experiences, wondering if they are even real. Yet, I cannot deny what I have seen, heard, and felt.
Ultimately, I believe the demonic aspect I discuss is very real. When I encountered concepts like the Leviathan spirit, it all began to make sense, especially as these ideas are often rooted in Western or Christian traditions. I enjoy blending different concepts to see what emerges, and I can assure you the foundational truths are consistent: they all represent evil and can allow these spirits to possess individuals.
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