Narcissists, by their very nature, are not receptive to criticism. If you think that identifying their behavior will lead to a moment of self-awareness or change, you’ll be disappointed. Narcissists have never truly listened to you before, so why would they start when you confront them with something uncomfortable about themselves?
Instead, they are more likely to turn the situation around. They’ll accuse you of being the narcissist, launching into a tirade of gaslighting and manipulation that leaves you questioning your own sanity. By the time they’re done, you might even start wondering if you’re the problem. This cycle is exactly what narcissists do best—deflect blame and protect their fragile egos.
2. You Won’t Get the Justice You Want
Many people feel that calling a narcissist out is their moment of justice—their chance to finally confront the person who’s caused them so much pain. But the reality is, justice rarely happens in a relationship with a narcissist. They are not going to have an epiphany where they realize, “You’re right, I am a narcissist, and now I’m going to change.”
Narcissists do not acknowledge their flaws, let alone take steps to fix them. Instead of the closure or justice you crave, you’re more likely to experience further emotional injury as they lash out in defense.
3. It Can Make Things Worse
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