Do you want to know how to identify a narcissist just by conversation? You’re listening to someone talk and you’re thinking, “I think that person might be a narcissist.” By the end of this video, you’re going to know exactly how to identify a narcissist just by hearing them speak.
So, how do you identify a narcissist from conversation? Here are eight telltale signs you’re talking to someone and thinking, “Yeah, that person’s definitely a narcissist.” And it’s not what you might think. It’s not just because someone says something good about themselves. Just because someone says, “I’m good at something,” or “I did a great job,” doesn’t make them a narcissist. That’s actually okay, and we should encourage people to say good things about themselves.
A narcissist, however, is someone who is completely self-centered, where it’s never about anyone else but them. Here are the signs:
They interrupt a lot – They don’t realize someone else is talking. They’ll interrupt mid-sentence without even saying, “Oh, I’m sorry, you were speaking.” Instead, they just start talking over others, completely oblivious.
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They never stop talking about themselves – During the early phase of a relationship, you should expect some questions about you: “Tell me about your life, your family, your job.” But a narcissist won’t stop talking about themselves. To them, you might as well be furniture on the other side of the table.
They don’t ask about you – Even after extended relationships, they never seem to be genuinely interested in anyone else. I had a client who never once asked about my life, my kids, or my staff’s lives. After his case was over, he still remained self-centered, and it became exhausting for everyone.
They don’t listen to your answers – They might ask you something out of courtesy, but they don’t care about the answer. They look at their phone or around the room for someone more interesting, making it clear they aren’t really paying attention.
Constant criticism – Narcissists are constantly critical and judgmental of others. Whether it’s their ex, friends, or colleagues, they always find something wrong. This low-vibrational energy is toxic and exhausting.
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Gaslighting – They say things to make you feel like you’re crazy. For example, I had a friend whose grandmother, after a car accident that was clearly her fault, tried to make the other person feel responsible. While this might be a humorous example, narcissists regularly gaslight others, manipulating the truth.
Lack of interest in others – Narcissists aren’t just uninterested in you; they’re uninterested in anyone else. Their world revolves around themselves, and everyone else is an afterthought.
Inability to accept criticism – Even the slightest criticism or perceived slight can set them off. They take things personally, even when there’s no reason to, like if they didn’t get as many French fries as someone else at a restaurant.
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