When their routines are disrupted or no longer serve them, the narcissist’s world begins to collapse. They want the outside world to mirror their inner world, and when it doesn’t, they feel lost and vulnerable. This reminds me of the time I finally stood up to my father. When his routine of silencing me failed, I saw him shrink into a small, frightened figure, unsure of what to do.
Narcissists are slaves to their own false self, which functions through these repetitive routines. When these routines are taken away, their false self starts to disintegrate, leaving them defenseless and unable to function.
Conclusion:
In short, narcissists are trapped by their own false self, which depends on repetition and routine. They cannot function without these habits in place.
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