When you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, it becomes painfully clear that everything revolves around them. Their needs, their emotions, and their desires dominate the relationship. But what happens when you’re the one in need? When you’re feeling sick, the dynamics shift, and your inability to focus on the narcissist creates tension and conflict.
While most people show care and empathy toward loved ones during times of illness, narcissists respond differently. When you’re sick, the narcissist sees your condition as an inconvenience, a disruption to their life and demands. Here’s how narcissists typically react when you’re unwell:
1. Total Lack of Empathy
Empathy isn’t part of a narcissist’s nature, and this becomes especially apparent when you’re sick. They can’t grasp the fact that you’re feeling unwell because their thoughts are consumed with how your illness affects them. Rather than show concern for your health, the narcissist will likely belittle you for being “lazy” or minimizing your symptoms, leaving you to deal with both physical illness and emotional neglect.
2. Selfish Behavior
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