Even when a narcissist does offer some level of care, it comes with expectations. They may help you, but only if they believe they can leverage it later for their benefit. You can expect this “care” to be minimal, and in the future, they’ll remind you of it and expect a grand gesture in return—far exceeding the help they gave.
The Narcissist’s True Nature: They Don’t Care
At the end of the day, the narcissist’s behavior during your illness reflects their overall disregard for your needs and well-being. Whether they gaslight, manipulate, or simply ignore you, the underlying truth is the same—they don’t care about your health. Any actions that appear helpful or considerate are motivated by selfish desires or an opportunity to maintain control over you.
The best way to protect yourself in such a situation is to manage your expectations. Recognize that a narcissist will not provide genuine support, and look to other people in your life for the care and empathy you deserve. Understanding these patterns can help you prepare for their behavior and focus on your own healing without falling into the traps of guilt or manipulation.
If you’ve been a victim of narcissistic behavior, you’re not alone. Seeking professional support and confiding in trusted friends and family can help you regain your emotional strength. Above all, remember that it’s not your fault, and you deserve better treatment than a narcissist can offer.
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