A narcissist could actually affect your DNA. We’re not just talking about emotional or psychological damage—there’s a real biological impact. When you have a child with a narcissist, a part of them could remain embedded in your very cells for the rest of your life. That sounds shocking and scary, but it is true. This is called microchimerism, and it’s a phenomenon that could explain why some survivors of narcissistic abuse feel like they can never fully escape the narcissist’s influence.
Let’s start by understanding microchimerism. This occurs when cells from one person end up living inside the body of another person. In your case, when you become pregnant with a narcissist’s child, cells from your baby—many of which come from the narcissist—cross into your bloodstream. These cells integrate into your organs, including your brain, liver, and even your heart. They don’t just disappear after pregnancy; they can stay with you for decades, sometimes for the rest of your life.
This process is not unique to narcissistic relationships—microchimerism happens in all pregnancies. However, when you’re dealing with someone who has caused you immense emotional trauma, having their DNA linger inside you feels more than just biological—it’s like an ongoing connection to someone you desperately want to escape. Their DNA can even change your genetic makeup.
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