In relationships, there’s an unfortunate reality that many people don’t recognize: they find themselves constantly giving to their partners, only to feel drained and unappreciated. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. In this video, we’ll reveal the top 8 signs that you’re being used instead of loved. Knowing the difference can save you from heartache and disappointment.
Being loved is a beautiful experience. It involves mutual affection, support, and understanding. However, being used in a relationship means your partner sees you as a tool, pretending to care but only being interested in what you can provide. Sadly, many people remain unaware of this dynamic, or worse, tolerate it because they’re blindsided by their emotions, not realizing they deserve so much more.
If you’ve been feeling like something is off in your relationship, keep watching, as this video might give you the clarity you need. Here are the top 8 signs you’re being used instead of loved.
Number 1: Your Partner Has Unrealistic Expectations
Everyone has basic expectations in relationships, such as sharing chores or having calm discussions. However, problems arise when these expectations become unrealistic. It might feel as if they expect you to meet every whim, as though you have superhuman abilities. Worse, nothing you do ever seems good enough, leaving your partner resentful. This could suggest they have a distorted view of others—especially you. William Shakespeare once said, “Expectation is the root of all heartache.” If you feel you’re constantly falling short, it might be a sign they’re using you instead of loving you for who you are.
Number 2: They Believe the World (Including You) Owes Them
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