When a baby cries, a narcissist doesn’t respond like an empathetic parent. They see the crying as a nuisance, not a need to be addressed.
Narcissists want the rewards of parenthood—such as admiration and attention—but avoid the challenges. They may enjoy fun moments with a child but shun responsibilities like comforting a crying baby.
Instead of attending to the baby’s needs, they may demand that you “deal with it.” Their lack of empathy makes them incapable of connecting with their child’s distress.
By contrast, trauma survivors may also find a crying baby triggering due to sensory overload or past experiences. However, this reaction stems from trauma, not a lack of empathy.
3. Laughter: A Threat to Narcissistic Control
Laughter can trigger a narcissist for several reasons.
First, they are insecure. When they hear laughter, they may assume it’s directed at them, personalizing it as mockery. This reaction often stems from their own unresolved trauma.
Second, they are envious of happiness. A narcissist cannot stand others being joyful when they feel miserable. Their inner turmoil must match the external environment, so they impose their mood on everyone around them.
Lastly, laughter disrupts their control. Narcissists demand seriousness and obedience in their relationships. If someone laughs, they perceive it as defiance.
4. The Narcissist’s Own Voice: A Hidden Insecurity
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