Narcissists thrive on keeping secrets because it gives them a sense of power and superiority over others. This also ensures they garner more attention. They hold a particular secret above all others: one that impacts everyone involved and cannot be escaped.
It’s well-known that narcissists require a constant supply of attention and validation, also known as “narcissistic supply.” Being unfaithful or cheating on a relationship is a primary source of joy for them. In other words, disloyalty is their ultimate secret. Yes, cheating on their partner without getting caught is one of their greatest prides. For narcissists, it’s the best-kept secret in town.
In this article, we will explore some reasons why narcissists cheat, whom they’re most likely to cheat on, how they cheat, and how they respond when caught. It’s astonishing what you’ll uncover, but when dealing with narcissists, anything is possible.
Here are some reasons why narcissists will always go out of their way to find new conquests:
1. Narcissists Don’t Respect You or Anyone Else
Narcissists cheat because they only care about themselves. They lack respect for you or anyone else, which makes it easy for them to flirt with others and present themselves as available. They take advantage of people who care for them, only to discard them later. This lack of respect enables them to betray others effortlessly, especially when their partners are deeply invested in the relationship.
2. Dishonesty Is Their Strong Suit
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Narcissists are inherently self-centered, making them deeply dishonest. They act purely on instinct and desire, often unaware (or unconcerned) about the consequences for their partners. Their only responsibility, as they see it, is to ensure their own satisfaction, regardless of the situation. Their insatiable desire for power and control drives them to deceive others.
No matter how much devotion or compromise their partner offers, narcissists are never satisfied. They seek constant validation and new sources of excitement, viewing relationships as a means to fulfill their own needs.
3. They’re Bored Easily and Seek New Excitement
Narcissists have a low tolerance for boredom. Once they’ve secured a relationship, they quickly grow tired of it. They lose interest in their partner’s offerings, yet they often hesitate to end the relationship because it still serves as a source of entertainment.
Instead, they seek alternative sources of supply, pursuing new conquests to keep themselves entertained and inflate their ego.
4. Narcissists Have an Inflated Sense of Importance
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Narcissists often believe they’re entitled to act however they please, even if their behavior is socially unacceptable. They resist any boundaries or conditions imposed by their partners, viewing them as restrictions on their superiority.
This inflated self-view drives them to follow their impulses and desires, regardless of societal norms or the feelings of those around them.
5. Narcissists Are Envious
Narcissists are driven by envy, which compels them to take what doesn’t belong to them. They frequently target people in committed relationships, seeing it as a competition they must win. This competitive mindset often leads them to pursue unavailable individuals, as acquiring what belongs to someone else validates their perceived superiority.
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