Seeking experiences that boost self-esteem is normal, but narcissists take this to an extreme. They constantly pursue self-enhancement in every situation, often at the expense of others.
Narcissists will go to great lengths, including physical, emotional, and mental harm, to maintain their sense of superiority. This relentless need to feel “above” others stems from deep-seated fears of inadequacy or past trauma.
3. They Struggle to Preserve Their Self-Image
For narcissists, their self-image is everything. Their lives revolve around maintaining and projecting a carefully crafted image to the world. They’ll do anything to ensure others admire them as they wish to be seen.
This obsessive focus on self-image leaves no room for genuine self-acceptance. Instead of addressing their real problems, they rely on external validation, leading to rejection and unhappiness. Living this way means they can’t enjoy being their authentic selves, trapping them in misery.
4. They Always Feel “Not Good Enough”
No matter what they achieve, narcissists often feel unfulfilled. They are perpetually comparing themselves to others, striving for more, and never stopping to appreciate their accomplishments.
Even if they reach a high level of success, they’re dissatisfied if someone else has achieved more. This constant comparison creates an unending cycle of envy and discontent.
5. They Often Feel Helpless or Depressed
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