Another common behavior is denial. They may deny that they are dying, deny their wrongdoings, and even deny that their lifestyle choices contributed to their current condition. Instead of sadness or fear, you are more likely to encounter defensiveness and anger. There will be no apologies—only contempt. They may even try to make you feel guilty, shifting the burden of blame onto you while refusing to acknowledge their own shortcomings.
Attention & Validation
A dying narcissist will still crave constant attention and validation. Even on their deathbed, they will seek to be the center of attention. Expect dramatic statements, exaggerated expressions of pain, or demands for reassurance about their worth or legacy. They may attempt to rewrite history, casting themselves as either a hero or a victim to highlight their achievements or perceived mistreatment by others.
Blame & Resentment
Narcissists often lash out and blame others for their condition, viewing death as a personal injustice or betrayal. They may throw accusations at those around them, expressing bitterness, particularly toward individuals they feel “failed” them. The harsh reality of their imminent death, while others remain alive, may amplify their resentment.
Lack of Peace
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