Narcissists enable the child’s abuser. If a relative sexually abuses you and you tell your narcissistic parent, instead of supporting you, they may dismiss your experience, saying it was your fault or that you must have done something to provoke it. They might even gaslight you, claiming it never happened.
If you’ve experienced something like this, please share your story in the comments if you feel comfortable. It may help validate other survivors. They will consistently side with the abuser, maintaining a positive relationship with them and exposing you to danger.
Number Five: Lack of Physical and Emotional Boundaries
Narcissistic parents have no physical or emotional boundaries. They often do not respect the limits that should exist between a parent and child. They may discuss inappropriate topics or behave in ways that make a child uncomfortable, assuming the child won’t understand.
For example, a narcissistic parent might openly use explicit language or engage in intimate behavior in front of children, disregarding their developing identities. When the child later expresses discomfort, the parent may react negatively, normalizing inappropriate behavior and failing to respect the child’s boundaries.
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