Contrary to popular belief, narcissists can be quite foolish in many ways. People often assume they are clever or intelligent to a certain degree. However, if you understand how to handle them and know how to navigate the situation, you can stay two steps ahead.
You may ask, “Why play their game? Why not just leave?” The truth is, leaving isn’t always an option. It’s not always that simple. In certain situations, you have to tolerate their behavior. In such cases, knowing which buttons to push can prevent them from overpowering you.
Sign 1: Mastering the Art of Emotional Manipulation
The first sign is mastering the art of using their emotions to influence their behavior. You know how to elicit the right emotional responses to get them to act in a way that benefits you.
Example 1: Escaping Persistent Attention
Imagine a narcissist constantly texting, hoovering, and invading your space, ignoring all your boundary-setting attempts. Instead of resisting, which fuels their thrill for the chase, you change your approach. You tell them, “I’m still stuck on you. I can’t move on. I miss you so much.” This strategy flips the dynamic because narcissists lose interest when you appear readily available—they thrive on the chase, not the prize.
Example 2: Making Decisions for Children
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