If you discern that their intent was not malicious, let it slide. But if it’s clear they’re targeting you, it’s a different story. When you’re certain someone is coming at you with ill intent, maintain strong eye contact, keep your posture confident, and address the situation calmly. For example, you could say:
- “What do you think you’re doing?”
- “What are you trying to accomplish by saying that?”
Alternatively, make a direct statement:
- “That’s an interesting remark. I wonder why you’d feel entitled to say such a thing to me.”
Then, let silence speak volumes. Breathe deeply, hold your ground, and refuse to be drawn into their game.
3. Expose Their Behavior Subtly
Another approach is to ask them to repeat what they said:
- “Can you repeat that, please?”
This forces them to confront their own words in front of others. If they backtrack or refuse, you can simply respond:
- “That’s what I thought.”
Or:
- “I’m sorry, what was your name again?”
This communicates that their words are so inconsequential that you’re not even sure who they are.
4. Hold Your Boundaries Firmly
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