Narcissists think that empaths owe them these nine things. Someone with high empathy can feel what is inside and outside their body. They deeply sense the emotions of others, understanding what other people have, feel, and need. Empathy goes beyond sensitivity—it drives actions, not just feelings.
In contrast, narcissists are the complete opposite of empaths. Any relationship with a narcissist is toxic, and for some strange reason, narcissists and empaths often attract each other. These toxic relationships can be extremely harmful because narcissists believe empaths owe them everything, even though this is far from true.
Now, onto the list:
1. Narcissists think you owe them attention.
Empaths can sense emotions and feelings, even when others cannot. For example, if someone is sad but hides it behind jokes and a cheerful demeanor, you can immediately sense their sadness. Narcissists, on the other hand, lack this ability. They are self-absorbed and rely on you to read others’ emotions, often to manipulate situations for their benefit. Additionally, narcissists demand your undivided attention, refusing to let you focus on anyone else unless they approve.
2. Narcissists think empaths owe them good interactions with people.
Empaths are naturally polite and kind. They instinctively know how to behave appropriately in social situations, which often makes them more approachable and likable. Narcissists, however, use kindness as a tool for personal gain. They expect empaths to cater to their needs, exploiting their politeness and friendliness for selfish purposes.
3. Narcissists think empaths owe them their insights about others.
Empaths have an innate ability to understand the nature and motives of people they meet. This intuitive judgment is something narcissists rely on to navigate social situations. However, if your judgment turns out wrong, the narcissist will blame you entirely, absolving themselves of any responsibility.
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4. Narcissists think empaths owe them sensitive feelings.
Empaths often act based on their hearts, leading others to see them as overly sensitive. Narcissists view this sensitivity as weakness, making empaths an easy target for manipulation. They exploit this trait to control and play with your emotions, often without you even realizing it.
5. Narcissists think empaths owe them the removal of criticism.
Narcissists are skilled manipulators. When they make mistakes, they shift the blame onto empaths, making them feel responsible for everything that goes wrong. Empaths, who already feel deeply, often internalize this criticism unnecessarily. Remember, not all criticism is meant for you, and you don’t need to absorb it all.
6. Narcissists think empaths owe them time.
Empaths need time alone to recharge and reflect. However, narcissists constantly demand your time and presence, expecting you to drop everything for them. Be cautious about sacrificing your precious free time for a narcissist’s needs.
7. Narcissists think empaths owe them their uniqueness and creativity.
Empaths often possess unique ideas and a creative way of thinking that sets them apart. Narcissists see this as a resource they can exploit for their own gain, using your creativity without acknowledging or appreciating your contributions.
8. Narcissists think empaths owe them emotional expression.
Empaths feel emotions intensely, often absorbing the feelings of others. Narcissists, who struggle to express genuine emotions, use empaths’ emotional openness to their advantage. They expect empaths to validate and amplify their feelings, trapping them in an emotional cycle.
9. Narcissists think they own you.
At their core, narcissists believe they own empaths. They feel entitled to control your actions, dictate your decisions, and hold you responsible for any mistakes. This sense of ownership can lead to a toxic, suffocating relationship dynamic.
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