Have you ever been on the receiving end of a gaze so intense it feels as though someone’s eyes are burning through you? This intense stare is our second clue for identifying a narcissist.
It is not just a focused look but a display of dominance and control—an almost predatory glare that asserts authority without words. Narcissists use this to intimidate and create an imbalance of power, making you feel inadequate, small, or even terrified.
This unyielding, unblinking gaze undermines your confidence and increases your vulnerability. Through this sharp eye contact, a narcissist may regulate the interaction, subtly conveying contempt and superiority. This makes you uncomfortable, often compelling you to react defensively or strive to appease them.
For example, Meghan Markle’s intense stares—such as her gaze toward her own mother—have raised questions. Is this a subdued assertion of dominance, a reminder of who’s in charge? Or is it simply the look of someone who is focused and aware of being observed?
Tools for Empowerment:
Use the “stare-back test” to assess intent. If someone continues to stare without softening their expression or breaking eye contact, it could indicate an effort to control or dominate. However, prolonged staring does not always signify manipulation; it may reflect intense concentration or difficulty interpreting social cues. Context matters.
Clue 3: The Raised Eyebrow
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