The narcissist’s behavior can make you feel like the ending wasn’t real or justified. They may post pictures of their new relationship, portraying it as the love of their life, leaving you to wonder if the problem was with you. But here’s the truth:
- It’s All About Image: The narcissist thrives on creating a false image. Their life with the new person isn’t any more real than it was with you. It’s all about maintaining their facade and gaining admiration.
- They Can’t Handle Rejection: Narcissists cannot tolerate being rejected because it threatens their self-image. To cope, they act as though you never existed.
- They Lack Empathy: Unlike you, they don’t feel the emotional weight of the breakup. Their lack of empathy enables them to move on without a second thought.
Staying Strong
Understanding the narcissist’s motives won’t erase the pain, but it can help you stay grounded. Remember:
- Their new relationship isn’t real—it’s just another act.
- Their behavior reflects their insecurities, not your worth.
- Empathy and self-respect are your strengths, and they set you apart from the narcissist.
No matter how tempting it may be, don’t let yourself fall back into their web. You deserve a life filled with genuine love and respect, not one dictated by a narcissist’s manipulations.
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