When a Lower Source Discards the Narcissist:
For lower sources, narcissists often move on quickly, leveraging backup sources of supply to maintain their inflated ego. They might pretend to be unbothered, act happier, or make it seem like they are better off without you. However, they often assume they can get you back when it suits them.
Ultimately, the value you provided as a source of supply determines how deeply the narcissist feels the injury.
What the Narcissist Thinks About the Discard
When discarded, the narcissist’s thoughts revolve around their sense of entitlement:
- “How dare you discard me?”
- “Who do you think you are?”
The narcissist neither forgives nor forgets, so revenge often lingers in their mind.
Conclusion
Discarding a narcissist ensures they will never forget you. While they may appear to move on quickly to secure new sources of supply, this doesn’t mean they’ve forgotten you or are truly over the discard.
An unexpected discard inflicts a deep narcissistic injury, often leading to rage, shame, or denial. This occurs because the narcissist perceives the loss of control as an existential threat.
For your safety and peace of mind, it’s crucial to establish zero contact or limited contact after discarding a narcissist. Leaving any door open may allow them to return at the earliest opportunity.
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