Narcissists think and reason differently than most people. They don’t want to grow; they want to take from others. Their relationships are transactional—they see people as resources to exploit and discard. When they approached you, it wasn’t about connection or love; it was about control.
From the beginning, they studied you. They learned your strengths, vulnerabilities, aspirations, and relationships. To them, you were a puzzle to solve—a resource to use for as long as possible. They wore a mask, pretending to be someone they weren’t, just to draw you in.
The longer you stayed with them, the more damage they caused—to your health, finances, and emotional well-being. Once you were no longer useful to them, they moved on, leaving you in a state of confusion and despair.
Breaking Free
The narcissist never thought you’d escape. They didn’t believe you’d figure out what they were doing or recognize the trauma bond they created. But you did. You began to educate yourself about narcissism, practicing radical acceptance, and putting yourself first.
That’s what they never expected—your strength to rise above their control. They thought you’d remain trapped, broken, and dependent on them. Instead, you found the courage to leave, heal, and rebuild.
Moving Forward
continue reading on the next page
Sharing is caring!
