The thought of being discarded is not something the narcissist desires, yet they do it covertly. There are signs to watch out for, though hindsight often reveals how calculated and malevolent they were. They never truly consider your feelings; they only care about creating a new narrative. They project their inner voices and destructive tendencies onto others.
We must pray for narcissists because they don’t realize who or what they are following. After securing a new supply, they sever all ties with you, often ensuring their flying monkeys align with their narrative. Disentangling from you is an anxious process for them, which is why many narcissists rely on medication. Imagine avoiding yourself because your foundation is rotten. Narcissists feed off negativity and seek validation, but it’s all a facade.
It’s important to learn self-reliance and break the cycle of emotional dependence. Once you find joy in yourself, you won’t fear missing out or seek validation from others. Narcissists thrive on manipulation, lies, and triangulation. Their behavior during the discard phase reveals their true nature. If you’re waiting for a narcissist to return, it’s essential to recognize they will only disrespect you further. You’re not their solution—just a means to an end.
Stay vigilant against hoovering attempts, even years after the discard. Narcissists often assume time makes their victims vulnerable, but maintaining no contact is vital. Lean on prayer and personal strength to combat the anxiety they cause. Narcissists rely on others for validation, but their smiles and happiness are a hollow act. They showcase their lives on social media to feed their insatiable need for attention.
It’s critical to protect yourself from narcissists and their destructive tendencies. Focus on building a strong relationship with yourself and, if you’re spiritual, with God. Emotional independence is key to avoiding another toxic relationship.
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