Survivors often possess an extraordinary capacity for forgiveness, a trait developed during childhood as a means of survival. They may believe the abuse they endured was their fault or feel obligated to forgive their abuser. Narcissists exploit this capacity to their advantage, pushing boundaries and perpetuating cycles of harm. Survivors’ patience and hope that the narcissist will change only empower the abuser further.
Breaking the Cycle
It’s important to recognize that these traits, which are virtuous in a healthy relationship, become chains in a toxic one. The most dangerous belief a victim can hold is the hope that the narcissist will change. The reality is that they won’t. Accepting this truth is the first step toward healing and freedom.
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