The narcissist looks through the side of the eye, more towards the floor, and has a condescending or disgust-filled look or expression on their face.
This look is designed and fabricated for a couple of reasons. One of which is to shame you, to elicit a deep yet heavy emotional response from you so that you feel terrible about yourself. The narcissist has to feel like the biggest victim, especially if he is a covert vulnerable narcissist. They have to make you feel that you have caused them so much harm: you have abandoned them, you have isolated them, you have hurt them the most, in the worst way possible, and for that, you should be ashamed of yourself.
That’s why this disgust-filled or condescending look on their face, maybe a little smirk or a smaller kind of thing, it’s a combination, very difficult to explain. But this kind of look, through the corner of the eye, more towards the left or right, on either side, and with this facial expression, it is almost like they are hitting you, battering you psychologically, without putting a hand on you. This is why I say narcissistic abuse is pervasive; it breaks your soul, and sometimes, without even any actual event happening, without anything overtly done, they just don’t even have to touch you with their abusive body language, they can just break you, tear you apart, and you can hate yourself without actually knowing what made you do that, what triggered that self-hatred.
This is how they create a sense of obligation in you to become their savior, to fix the relationship for them when they are the ones causing all the damage. This is how they create this chronic sense of shame in you that takes over, and just an eye look becomes your Nemesis in a way, strong enough to make you berate yourself, gaslight yourself into thinking you are the worst human that has ever come to this earth, and now it’s your responsibility to uplift their ego and make them feel better.
Number 3: Up, down of the eyes when they look at you.
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