I hope you will declare, “I’m not going to be controlled by that narcissist anymore.” They will reveal their pathology—that’s a virtual guarantee. When they do, recognize that their breakdown is a commentary on who they are, not you. It highlights their insecurities and distorted thinking, indicating that they are troubled souls. This underscores even more that I don’t need to let such a person control me.
Let’s hold on to one crucial thought: it is necessary—not just good, but necessary—for you to be yourself. When you assert, “I’m not going to let someone control me,” hold on to that thought, move forward, and don’t look back.
Remember, you don’t need to be controlled by someone else. You’re not the best version of yourself when that happens. As you hold on to that thought and everything that comes with it, I hope you find your place of consistency, steadiness, and most importantly, peace.
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