Narcissists form connections with people they claim to love to preserve their identity. Whether it’s a romantic relationship, friendship, or business alliance, their goal is exploitation. In the early stages of a romantic relationship, narcissists often engage in “love bombing,” showering their partners with excessive attention. They seek out individuals with qualities they admire—not to cherish them, but to exploit them. Narcissists are drawn to those who share their beliefs or possess desirable traits. One of the first signs of their jealousy is an unusually intense interest in you. They use this tactic to keep their “enemies” close, pretending to admire them while gathering information about their weaknesses for later use.
Their goal is to spend as much time with you as possible, making you the center of their attention. However, their behavior often feels unnatural or makes you uncomfortable. Trust your instincts if you sense trouble. Narcissists might initially praise or compliment you, highlighting traits they find appealing, but their admiration often has ulterior motives. If you notice something off, distance yourself immediately. In some cases, they might openly express envy of your situation, either jokingly or sincerely. They may also overwhelm you with praise to lower your defenses, so remain cautious of unwarranted flattery. People who excessively praise you may be hiding their true intentions.
Another red flag is their micro-expressions, which can briefly reveal their true feelings. For example, when hearing good news about someone else, they might scowl or grimace before forcing a fake smile. Pay attention to their reactions when they think no one is watching.
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