To the chosen ones—the empaths, to every soul radiating genuine light—understand the depths of their animosity. Narcissists are consumed by a venomous hatred toward you. The mere fact of your continued existence, your progress, your ability to thrive without them torments them. They resent that they can no longer observe your every move, that they weren’t there to witness your moments of vulnerability. They crave the power to inflict more pain, but what truly fuels their rage is your liberation—your ability to break free from their gravitational pull.
They will harbor this resentment, this desire for your downfall, for the rest of their days. Once they realize they’ve lost you forever, it consumes them. They observe you through the veiled eyes of flying monkeys or through their own surreptitious surveillance. They are obsessed. This is a truth often overlooked. Even long after the relationship has ended, they fixate on you. What once may have been an obsession born of desire has now transformed into a fixation fueled by pure, unadulterated malice. They actively wish for your downfall, and some will even attempt to orchestrate it.
Let this truth resonate: their choice to move on does not diminish your worth. Quite the opposite. Your resilience, your ability to thrive despite their attempts to break you—that is what truly diminishes them. They feel inadequate, especially when juxtaposed against a new supply that fails to provide the same level of validation. They feel unworthy, haunted by your presence and your continued progress. You, the one they believed they had destroyed, are flourishing.
They never witnessed your darkest hours—unless you chose to reveal your pain. They remain oblivious to the depths of your suffering, and that ignorance fuels their insatiable desire to see you broken. They yearn for your misery. When they catch wind of your success—a promotion, a personal achievement, a renewed sense of well-being, a deeper connection to your spirituality—it triggers a profound sense of failure within them. They are driven by a destructive impulse, a primal urge to dismantle others. Now, they direct that energy toward wishing, praying, and conjuring whatever means they deem fit for your downfall.
And here’s the unsettling truth: they maintain a relentless vigil. They observe you long after the relationship has ended, hoping to witness your suffering. They crave confirmation of your brokenness. This is why I caution against rushing into new relationships. In your vulnerability, you are susceptible to repeating the cycle with another narcissist. You are still processing the trauma, still healing from the previous abuse. Allow yourself the time and space to recover fully. Prioritize your well-being. It is imperative.
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These narcissists will harbor a deep-seated resentment, a relentless yearning for your downfall, for as long as time permits. As you embrace the finality of the relationship, as you solidify your independence, as you move forward, their focus will shift back to you. It is an immutable law of the universe: your disengagement ignites their obsession.
You see, you once sustained them. You entertained them. These insatiable, dusty, peculiar beings thrived on your energy. Now, that energy is rightfully yours, and they will seethe as you channel it into your own growth and pursuits. They will hate you for thriving. You will explore new horizons, experience life on your own terms, and this will enrage them.
Instead of rushing into another toxic entanglement, prioritize your own journey. Consider the possibilities—remote work, travel, even brief excursions. These experiences, undertaken for yourself, will infuriate the narcissist. They would prefer you to be entangled with another abuser, trapped in a cycle of familiar pain. They are cunning, calculating. They know that a new toxic relationship might even make them appear less monstrous in comparison.
So take your time. Heal. They will continue to wish for your demise, but you will transcend their negativity. You will rise above it all. Their obsession is a constant, a relentless undercurrent. They operate under the delusion that if they cannot possess you, no one can. They believe they own you, even after discarding you. They resent your prosperity, your independence.
To those navigating the darkness, know this: you will emerge stronger. Trust the process. The profound spiritual awakening you are experiencing is not to be trivialized. You have confronted evil, endured their torment, and now you must prioritize your healing. The rumination, the intrusive thoughts, the unwanted memories—these are all part of the process. But as you reclaim your life, as you move forward, you become a source of profound punishment for the narcissist. They will attempt to provoke you, even decades later. They are deeply disturbed.
Therefore, maintain your distance. Sever all ties—friendship, family, romantic—any form of narcissistic connection must be cut off completely. You have glimpsed the true nature of evil. Do not underestimate the gravity of that experience. You deserve time for yourself—to rediscover your autonomy, to embrace your freedom, to travel, to dine alone, to pursue your passions. These seemingly small acts of independence are a powerful declaration of your liberation. They shatter the illusion of their ownership.
Your disengagement, your focus on yourself, ignites their deepest insecurities. And that is your ultimate triumph.
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