To the chosen ones—the empaths, to every soul radiating genuine light—understand the depths of their animosity. Narcissists are consumed by a venomous hatred toward you. The mere fact of your continued existence, your progress, your ability to thrive without them torments them. They resent that they can no longer observe your every move, that they weren’t there to witness your moments of vulnerability. They crave the power to inflict more pain, but what truly fuels their rage is your liberation—your ability to break free from their gravitational pull.
They will harbor this resentment, this desire for your downfall, for the rest of their days. Once they realize they’ve lost you forever, it consumes them. They observe you through the veiled eyes of flying monkeys or through their own surreptitious surveillance. They are obsessed. This is a truth often overlooked. Even long after the relationship has ended, they fixate on you. What once may have been an obsession born of desire has now transformed into a fixation fueled by pure, unadulterated malice. They actively wish for your downfall, and some will even attempt to orchestrate it.
Let this truth resonate: their choice to move on does not diminish your worth. Quite the opposite. Your resilience, your ability to thrive despite their attempts to break you—that is what truly diminishes them. They feel inadequate, especially when juxtaposed against a new supply that fails to provide the same level of validation. They feel unworthy, haunted by your presence and your continued progress. You, the one they believed they had destroyed, are flourishing.
They never witnessed your darkest hours—unless you chose to reveal your pain. They remain oblivious to the depths of your suffering, and that ignorance fuels their insatiable desire to see you broken. They yearn for your misery. When they catch wind of your success—a promotion, a personal achievement, a renewed sense of well-being, a deeper connection to your spirituality—it triggers a profound sense of failure within them. They are driven by a destructive impulse, a primal urge to dismantle others. Now, they direct that energy toward wishing, praying, and conjuring whatever means they deem fit for your downfall.
And here’s the unsettling truth: they maintain a relentless vigil. They observe you long after the relationship has ended, hoping to witness your suffering. They crave confirmation of your brokenness. This is why I caution against rushing into new relationships. In your vulnerability, you are susceptible to repeating the cycle with another narcissist. You are still processing the trauma, still healing from the previous abuse. Allow yourself the time and space to recover fully. Prioritize your well-being. It is imperative.
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