Notice: Undefined index: scroll_to_top in /home/drpsuklf/breckil.com/wp-content/plugins/pagination/pagination.php on line 272
7 Psychological Traps Narcissists Use to Control Their Victims - narcissistic behavior

7 Psychological Traps Narcissists Use to Control Their Victims

Updated on:

Have you ever felt like you were walking on eggshells around someone, constantly second-guessing yourself or even wondering if you’re losing your mind? If so, you might be caught in a narcissist’s psychological trap. Narcissists are pros at manipulating others, using subtle but powerful tactics to control their victims. These mind games can leave you feeling confused, powerless, and questioning your worth. But don’t worry; you’re not alone. These traps can be spotted and avoided. Today, we’ll break down some of the most common psychological tricks narcissists use so you can recognize them and protect yourself from falling under their control.

Are you ready for number one? Denying reality. Narcissists tend to make you doubt your memory and sanity to control your mind. For example, you might recall a hurtful argument, but they deny it ever happened or twist the story to blame you. According to therapist Stephanie Sarkis, this form of gaslighting aims to make you question yourself and rely on their version of events. Sometimes it’s subtle, like saying you’re being too sensitive, which can slowly erode your confidence over time. This constant rewriting of reality leaves you unsure of what’s real and makes you feel like you’re walking on eggshells. Patricia Evans, author of The Verbally Abusive Relationship, calls this a form of erasure that invalidates your experiences. To protect yourself, document events, trust your instincts, and seek support to stay grounded in your truth.

Let’s talk about number two: Guilt tripping. Narcissists have a knack for making their victims feel responsible for their unhappiness. They may manipulate the situation by saying, “If you cared about me, you would have done this differently,” subtly shifting the blame onto you. This tactic not only creates confusion but also erodes your sense of self-worth. Psychotherapist Susan Forward, in her book Emotional Blackmail, highlights how this behavior fosters a toxic dynamic where guilt becomes a tool for control. Over time, this relentless emotional manipulation makes you question your actions, boundaries, and even your right to assert your needs. It’s like walking on eggshells, unsure of what will set them off. As the guilt deepens, it often leads to cycles of shame and self-blame. Brené Brown, a renowned academic and author, explains that when guilt is weaponized, it traps people in a pattern of negative self-perception, making them feel like they’re never doing enough. Narcissists thrive on this power, constantly shifting responsibility for their happiness onto others, especially their victims. The truth, however, is that their happiness is never your responsibility, no matter how skillfully they try to convince you otherwise. Recognizing this is the first step toward reclaiming your boundaries and emotional well-being.

Continue reading on the next page

Sharing is caring!

Pages ( 1 of 3 ): 1 23Next »

Leave a Comment

Ads Blocker Image Powered by Code Help Pro

Ads Blocker Detected!!!

We have detected that you are using extensions to block ads. Please support us by disabling these ads blocker.

Powered By
Best Wordpress Adblock Detecting Plugin | CHP Adblock

Notice: Undefined index: scroll_to_top in /home/drpsuklf/breckil.com/wp-content/plugins/pagination/pagination.php on line 286