Narcissists always operate in a way that is best for themselves, even when they pretend otherwise. Therefore, it is of the utmost importance to grasp this basic yet fundamental concept when dealing with narcissists. This is due to the fact that, in certain respects, normies are also engaging in projection. They give narcissists the feeling of empathy and sympathy, which is exactly what they want. These people just can’t think of someone who is incapable of expressing empathy. As a result of this, the narcissist finds it quite simple to pick on these individuals.
If you’re a victim of a narcissist, you probably don’t have time to think about how or why someone could be so disgusting, greedy, and manipulative without the slightest bit of care towards others. It doesn’t really make a difference if narcissists are aware of how negatively they impact the lives of others. One of their primary objectives is to delay their victim’s discovery of their deception for as long as possible. And when the time comes that you finally discover the narcissist’s true characteristics and refuse to be controlled, things won’t be so good for you. But you need to remain strong and determined because this is what they will do to get you under their control again.
First, expect all kinds of dishonesty, blatant lies, and fact submission. Lies are false statements that are prepared and presented as if they were truthful and accurate when it comes to getting what they want. As we all know, narcissists are more than happy to say anything it takes. They dishonestly tell you the truth right in front of your face while concealing the truth in order to tell a lie. Primarily, the narcissist seeks to keep you hidden behind a veil of secrecy and deception so that he or she can abuse your lack of knowledge of critical information that might influence your decision-making in their favor. To keep everyone dancing to the same tune, they manipulate you and your sense of self by saying whatever it takes to keep everyone in their place. They insist on dominance and control.
Secondly, in order for narcissists to take advantage of their chosen target, they must first gain complete control over them. They’ll frequently try to exert their authority over every aspect of your existence. In certain cases, this conduct manifests itself in several ways, including but not limited to managing the money, making dinner plans, deciding how your children are raised, determining where you live, and deciding whether or not you work. Telling the narcissist to go away is the best thing you can do for yourself, unless you don’t mind having your every move regulated. Your only option, as I presume you do, is to sever the connection. It’s not always as simple as it appears, and with children in tow, it’s much more challenging. Another example is if they’re an elderly family member, a coworker, or an employer. However, there is always a way out of every situation, and the path to rehabilitation begins with self-healing and recovery work, as well as establishing a strong support network. This is a team effort, and I think none of us can do it alone.
Continue reading on the next page
Sharing is caring!
