But perhaps for some of you, this understanding isn’t enough. You might be thinking: that’s all well and good, but what if they hurt me? What if they did me wrong? Where’s my justice? To that, I say: hold up a minute. Their karma might not be as straightforward as you think.
See, here’s the thing about happiness: it’s fleeting. It’s like sand slipping through your fingers. The moment you think you’ve got it, it’s already slipping away. So what if the narcissistic person in your life is already paying their karmic price? What if losing you is actually their calling, their destiny? It might sound strange, but sometimes losing someone can be the wake-up call that they need to change their ways.
So, trust in the process and know that sometimes the best thing you can do for yourself is to take a step back and watch the universe work its magic. Therefore, you should know this: as long as you keep pursuing a narcissist, they can’t lose you. When you keep yourself on the narcissist’s radar or beg for closure, you’re just keeping yourself attached to them, watching them live their life. They have to lose you for it to be their calling, their karma. By this, I mean you won’t even see the narcissist suffer. So let losing you be their karma.
It might not seem like enough to some people, but trust me—karma can be a persistent and perpetual boredom. What if missing out on prolonged happiness and joy is the ultimate karma for a narcissistic person? They might not die alone, but they’ll be lonely because they’ll never experience true happiness.
But here’s the thing: you can’t force karma on someone else. That karmic boomerang is going to come back and hit you twice as hard. Trust me, I’ve thrown some karmic boomerangs before, and it never ends well. So if you want to get rid of a narcissist, you need to expose them, call them out, and make them leave you alone. Stop playing their toxic games of Monopoly or whatever it is they’re trying to play. It’s time to move on and let karma do its thing. When you finally snap and stop playing their game, that’s when the real karma comes into play. When you go no contact, when you cut them out of your life, that’s when you start to see their karma catching up to them.
But here’s the thing: they can’t experience it until you take action. You have the power to be happy, to choose happiness. Narcissistic people are always chasing it, running after it like a wild goose chase, and the older they get, the slower they become. Happiness seems to slip even further away, but it’s not just age; it’s this constant hamster wheel of chasing happiness that narcissists just can’t seem to get off of, no matter what they do.
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