But typically, an empath will have a really good idea. Deep down, they know! And if they stepped into their power to any degree, getting where they want to go is a priority for an empath. There comes a point where we just wake up. I think all of humanity is moving in this direction, but for some of us, it’s happening faster than others. Some of us are leading the way, so to speak. Again, it’s not a value issue; we all have value, but it’s obvious some people are waking up faster than others. And once an empath starts to wake up, you know you’re on a mission— even if that isn’t completely crystallized in terms of what it is, you know you came here for a reason, a purpose. There is a call on your life, and you know that it’s an important call.
And the more you reclaim your power, get clear, and raise your vibration, the less time you’ll have for deeply unconscious, empathy-impaired people. Instead, you start loving yourself, taking care of yourself, and you’ll get on path. You get about the business of doing what you came here to do, which ultimately boils down to clarity. An empowered empath is clear and empowered; clarity is all about knowing exactly who you are, why you’re here, and what you want.
Number four: Empaths want meaningful relationships with other empathetic people.** This includes their partners, which can be a challenge for many of us. Because if you’re anything like I was for years, simply by virtue of my early experiences with my family of origin and all the unresolved and unhealed stuff I carried for so long, I went through life attracting one destructive narcissist after another. Well, needless to say, this area of my life was very challenging until I finally surrendered and did the real healing and recovery work that I needed to do.
But even when we aren’t running a pattern of attracting one destructive narcissist after another, the truth is it can be difficult for the average person to show up for and hold space for a highly empathic human with the depth of intensity if they don’t carry the same level of empathy themselves. Empaths go deep and want many levels of complexity and authenticity. And, in fact, not just romantically, but in friendships as well. Surface-level, superficial, all the fake image and false persona BS that many people lead with is hard for an empath to handle.
This is why it’s on us to do our own work. The more we do our work, the more we open ourselves up to attract people who actually resonate at the same level. I know for me, empathy-impaired people started to fall out of my life in every way imaginable. Sometimes more painful than others, for sure, but always for my highest good, always taking me to higher ground. And the more I did my own internal healing and recovery work, the less compelled I was toward people who weren’t soul-aligned. They weren’t attracted to me anymore either; I’m not much fun for a narcissist— not anymore.
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