When you are in this phase, self-care might seem like a waste of time; do it anyway. It may sound cliché, but your future self will absolutely thank you. Giving your body the right care and attention will help your system regulate, and in the end, you will appear fitter, happier, and more well-adjusted—all the things that will send the narcissist reeling. Here’s a little secret: they actually thought you’d fall apart without them. Do whatever it takes to prove them wrong.
Finally, let’s discuss the ultimate revenge that a narcissist will not see coming. This will make them feel completely insignificant, which is the worst thing you can do to a narcissist. Be careful with this one, as if you are successful, you will likely be met with a smear campaign or a hoover attempt—maybe even both.
This form of silent revenge is living your best life. It certainly starts with a glow-up of sorts and incorporates everything we’ve discussed here today. When you’re living your best life, you are completely unbothered by what the narcissist is doing, thinking, or feeling. In fact, they are the furthest thing from your mind; they become insignificant in your life. At that point, you aren’t even worried about revenge anymore.
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