Number 5: Narcissists Feel That It Is Not Their Loss.
If their partners establish a no-contact rule, a frequent narcissist’s response is, “It isn’t my loss.” They will comfort themselves with the idea that it is not their problem, but rather the loss of the partner for leaving. However, deep inside, it hurts the narcissist for not leaving first.
Number 6: Narcissists Want Revenge.
When you cut off contact with a narcissist, they will feel abandoned and go insane wanting you back. These individuals will find a way to contact you, no matter how many times you block them. They will shower you with attention, not because they love you, but because they want you back to get revenge. Partners who return to the narcissist will be remorseful; it is undoubtedly an opportunity for the narcissist to abuse them.
Number 7: They Will Not Forget About You.
If you do not contact the narcissist, they will not forget about you or neglect you. Narcissists are doomed because they are unaware of their actions. The thought of someone leaving them would upset them.
Number 8: Fear of Abandonment.
Abandonment not only pains narcissists but also drives them insane. Their greatest dread is the fear of abandonment and rejection by the people they expect to stay. Narcissistic individuals often grow up with family abandonment issues. They do not want to be left behind; they love to do the leaving. They will leave you behind like an old broken toy when they are done with you.
Number 9: They Feel Powerless.
A narcissist requires the power of being superior to others. As a result, they control their partners and do what they want in their relationships. So if their partners go no contact, the power swings away from them, rendering narcissists helpless, which infuriates and drives them crazy.
Number 10: You Are Their Emotional Punching Bag.
Narcissists thrive in one-sided relationships. They want complete control over their partners. If they have frustrations, they want their partners to absorb their negativity to feel better. If their lovers go no contact, narcissists will feel hopeless.
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