Number 4: They’ll shift how they treat you.
Many people don’t realize that narcissists aren’t usually interested in those they see as having low social standing. If you find yourself targeted by a destructive narcissist, it’s probably because you possess qualities they admire. Perhaps you radiate positivity and have a deep sense of empathy and kindness, which they lack. You’ve likely achieved impressive personal and intellectual accomplishments. By being associated with you, they feel their image is elevated, which initially appeals to their vanity. In essence, you embody everything the narcissist lacks. Your strength, personal power, and dynamic attributes are undeniably attractive to them at first. But narcissists can’t help but assert dominance over others. They’re obsessed with maintaining a facade of superiority, even if it’s completely detached from reality. So it’s only a matter of time before your strength becomes a problem for them, especially for a destructive narcissist. Depending on the situation, you might notice it right away or slowly realize that it’s causing issues in your relationship. But when that shift happens, you won’t be able to miss it. By the way, make sure to subscribe if you’ve learned something new today.
Number 5: They’ll do whatever it takes to make you doubt yourself.
Narcissists get a kick out of pinpointing your vulnerabilities. They do it on purpose just to make you doubt yourself, question your worth, and second-guess your abilities. They’re trying to fabricate and magnify feelings of guilt, shame, fear, inadequacy, and insecurity within you, all to keep control and make you feel inferior. But guess what? All this behavior stems from their own buried feelings of inferiority. It’s hard to wrap your head around the fact that people can be so cruel just because they’re scared and insecure, unless you’ve experienced this emotional and psychological abuse firsthand. But that’s the reality with narcissists.
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